Learn more about Wedding Ceremonies 
and Premarital Conversations, or read
 Ceremony Samples and Praise.

Learn more about Blessings & Family Rituals,
and read Testimonials from Families, 
Sample Ceremonies for Children, 
or other Blessing Samples.

Learn more about Memorials & Funerals 
or read Ceremony Samples.

Learn more about Rites of Passage & Healing Rituals, or read Ceremony Samples.

General Information

I am happy to talk with you about a special ceremony to honor, memorialize or celebrate any occasion or event. Depending on your needs, the process of working together looks something like this:

Initial Steps  
I offer free initial phone, FaceTime, Skype or in-person consultations to get to know each other a bit and decide if you'd like to work together.  No matter how large or small, traditional or offbeat your occasion, I hope you'll contact me to see if a custom ceremony is right for you.

Crafting the Ceremony
Ceremonies begin to take shape through discussion and lots of questions.  You may already have a clear vision for your ceremony or, if desired, I can suggest elements you may wish to include such as rituals, readings, blessings, ways to incorporate your religious or cultural backgrounds and include your family and friends.

Officiating the Ceremony
In addition to a beautiful, meaningful and personal ceremony, my presence and experience as a minister is a large part of what I offer as your officiant.  I will help create the container in which your ceremony will unfold with the utmost care, thoughtfulness and attention to your needs as well as the intention behind your ceremony or ritual.

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"Your custom ceremony far exceeded every one of
my expectations.  We're so grateful."

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FAQs

How long does it take to create a custom ceremony?
Ceremonies have a way of coming together, utilizing as much or as little time as you have. Ideally we would have several months to craft a large ceremony like a wedding, although I've done simple ceremonies with only a few weeks preparation. Even if it's short notice, I encourage you to contact me with your inquiry.  

How much does it cost?
Each ceremony is unique and therefore your investment can vary greatly, ranging anywhere from $150 to $1,000.  The price is based on the size and complexity of your ceremony, travel expenses, rehearsal needs and any special requests you might have. After discussing your ceremony I will be able to offer you a free quote.  Weddings and some other ceremonies may require a deposit. 

Click here for pricing specific to wedding ceremonies.  Go here for ceremonies for mothers, families and children.  Whenever possible, I am glad to offer my services to individuals and families regardless of their ability to pay.  Sliding scale and pay what you can options can be discussed during our initial consultation.​

Are you available for rehearsals? 
Absolutely.  Depending on my availability and your needs, rehearsals can be arranged for a $100 fee (additional travel costs may apply).   Whether or not you decide to have a rehearsal, I will provide you with a cue sheet so you and any other participants or vendors will be familiar with the ceremony outline.

Do we need a marriage license?
If you plan to be legally married, yes.  You can find a simple guide to getting your Massachusetts marriage license here.

Do you travel?
Yes!  Based in Northampton, I perform ceremonies throughout Western Massachusetts, the Berkshires, New England and beyond.  My fee includes 50 miles of travel; additional mileage is calculated at $0.55/mile.  I also happily travel for destination weddings and events. Contact me for pricing on destination travel. (Please note that some locations require permission and extra fees for marriages performed by out-of-state clergy.)​

Do you have a PA system?
​Yes, I am happy to provide amplification for outdoor and large ceremonies at no cost. The system includes a battery-operated speaker, a lapel microphone for myself and a wireless handheld microphone for use by you or your ceremony participants.